When I work with couples, I use the same principles of energy psychology to help each person become more authentic and compassionate in the relationship. My focus with couples is two-fold: to really learn to listen to each other and for each person to take radical responsibility for what each of them is bringing to the relationship.
Radical responsibility includes no more blaming, judging, or criticizing as a means to create change in a relationship. Sound impossible? Anything is possible when you learn how to listen through your heart. It takes practice, a body-centered energy practice, to be able to listen with compassion and find the deeper truths that are wanting to be realized in yourself and in your relationship.
Here are some resources for the foundation practices that I draw from in my work with couples:
Feel the change,
Be the change